Did u know THESE??

A - Age you got your first kiss:
do i be honest???ok 22 ;-)

B - Band listening to right now:
Pussy Cat Dolls[Dont u wish ur gf was HOT like me]

C - Crush:
Crush??Tauba Tauba ;-)
Me in love now :-)

D- Drink of Choice:
Pepsi

E - Easiest person:
My JIJ

F - Favorite band at the moment:
Black Eyed Peas ( my Humps)

G - Gummy worms or gummy bears?
Teddddyyyyy Bearsssss :-)

H – Holiday:
Dubai

I - Instruments:
FLUTE - I jus luv it

J - Juice:
Watermelon

K - Kids:
I love kids

L - Longest car ride ever:
not very loooooong...I guess the longest i had was from Dubai to Abu dhabi..My sis had a holiday & Jij had an official trip...so I reported sick at work ;-) nd it was even more fun since I was driving that too at 110-120KM/hr on the highway with not much traffic being a weekday..

M - Major:
Chocolates... Love them anytime & all the time

N - Nicknames:
Spots, Dreamgirl, Beans....

O - One wish:
cant stop at one!!!

P - Phobia[s]:
I Always have this feeling of falling from a Roller Coaster....
But I still sit on it with my eyes shut!!!! [weird??!!!]


Q - Quote:
Whatever happens,happens for the best...!!!

R - Reason to smile:
My Neice, good jokes(arzooooonn)

S - Song you sang last:
Agar tum mil jaoo zamana chod denge hum.... Zeher
Such a beautiful song.

T - Time you woke up [today]:
08.30

U - Unknown fact about me:
I cry a lot..but very few know abt this coz i never cry in front of people...However hurt i be!! Its always me,my tears & my Tanhaiyeee....

V - Vegetable you hate:
Brinjal & Bitter Gourd(karela)

W - Worst habit(s):
Biting nails!!!
Arguing just for funsake & to irritate the oter person ;-)

X-rays you've had:
I had my back x ray recently ( i keep falling so often!!!Luckily ma back bone is still intact)

Y - Yummy food:
Food??KFC,Biriyani,Lasagne........can go on & on & on...lolss

Z - Zodiac sign:
CANCER - a water sign- so Cancerian people are emotionally intense and deeper than they appear on the surface, while quite sensitive and understanding once you get through that tough exterior.~~~Quite True abt ME :-)

My Sissssssster :-)

I have never told her how much i love her!!
Never told her how beautiful she is...how gratefull i am to have her in my life...
Tats how my relationship with my SISTER is~~~Rare,Unique & Beautiful!!!


We are not of the same age...we have a huge 9yrs gap between us.We have never played together,never been to school together..never shared our toys/friends..We are very different from each other in everything other than the looks.... we look very much alike but she is more beautiful than me - just a little...though i never admit it to her ;-)))She is the one i have faught the mosst with!!!And i used to love those silly fights...mummy loves me more than U...I am fairer than u.....my eyes r better than urs etc etc etc etc......She loves to irritate me...nd i luv to get irritated....The best part of our relationship is that i dont need to tell her anything..She knows exactly what i mean....she knows tat i am lying when i say i dint even think of u once in the past week....She knows I love the food made by her even if i tell her that i can cook better than u....tats the peculiarity of this wonderfull reltnship!!


I have got 3 precious things in life through her that i cherish:
Her Hubby-My Jiju-My Best friend : Even though he is related to me as family he is more of a friend to me...He is sometimes my guide,my teacher,my over protective brother etc etc..I have had a strong bonding with him even before he got married to my sis...He is my inspiration...I can always depend on him-be it my studies,my bf's,my break-ups,permission frm momdad etc etc..He has always been there as a moral,emotional support 4 me..He is a wonderful person.

My 2 lovely Nieces : They are so cute..nd soo adorable....i love to be with them...the younger one is just 3yrs old..its fun to listen to her baby talks....she will go nd kiss evry other person in the house just to make me feel Jealous...nd then i have to beg her 4 a kiss.........nd that 1 kiss is worth a million dollars!!The elder one looks soo much like ME nd so is very beautiful ;-) LOL nd just like me she will never admit that she resembles me!!!

I miss all of them.....i miss being with them...i miss fighting with my sis..talking my heart out with my BIL...playing with my nieces....Even though i speak to them everyday nd see them too(thnx to YM) its not the same as being there....Nd i never tell them how much i miss them......But they all know that i love them a looooot & misss them like hell.....nd i know they miss me toooo.....

My sis is a real blessing to me...She is always there for me...I never realised her importance in my life when we were together...Always took her for granted..all the things that she used to do for me...i miss everything..
Though many miles are between us, she is always in my heart
and when we get together,it's as if we've never been apart.
Everytime i think of u I hug u in my heart.....
Thanx 4 always being being there!!!

I miss them every day but today being my younger niece's BURTHDAYY...I wish i was there with them......nd know what?? she says she wants ME as her bday gift!!!
I am soo happy to hear that.....nd i wished i could give her bday gift to her!!! :-((

Wats in a NAME??

Just a thought that came to me as i read a comment from Puneet...
"If she opens her mouth... we will also take it as a joke ;-)"

And i was thinking.... ( i do think somtimes ;-) )
Does it really not matter who I am or what i am??
Is writing blogs just a way to kill your time??Dont u really wanna know who u are talking to?Who is the one who wrote such nice things about you??

At first when i started to create a blog...I was confused...Wat should I name my blog??Shuld i put my ACTUAL name???Wat abt my display??Is it safe to put my picture??I was adviced by a friend that i shoudnt let out personal informations about me...I have been warned many a times by my mom when i was very young..nd new to the chat world..I was never allowed to chat(though i did manage to do it)..nd so all that made me decide not to put my name anywhere...Nd thus i came up with DREAMGIRL!!!

There are very few people whom i know as a person nd have met them on the blogworld.. But what abt others??How do I trust them?How will they Trust ME??Is it not necessary to trust a person who is ur friend??An individual is known by his/her name!!So how can u be friends with a person who doesnt even know ur real name??

For all u know....I can be a 45yr old guy.... disguising as a sweet,innocent girl of 17yrs!!!Wats the difference between me nd that so called guy who is posing to be 'KESHI'???Even though i hvnt given out any details abt me....U all do have a specific image of mine...isnt it??U all know me as Dreamgirl......But WHO is dreamgirl??Wat does she do?How is she like?How true is she??

Can u really take it as a joke if one day u come to know that i am not what u have been thinking me to be....or THAT what i have been potraying myself to be!!!

But having said that...Is it safe for me to put up my name,my personal details,my snap etc on the blog??Its so difficult to trust people whom u meet on ur real life... I have had bad experiences with people whom i trust....whom i thought i knew so well...So how can i trust people on the virtual world???

This is not a topic to be debated on...I know it all depends on the individual..U do wat u think is right...There are many of u who have put up thier real identities...nd many like me who have chosen new names for themselves...I respect all of ur decisions...But am still Confused!!!hahahahah.......

Who says a MAN Cant CRY???

DONT MEN HAVE EMOTIONS??!!!
Dont they need to shed a few tears??
Do they always need to be strong?




I have rarely seen a man cry.....Be it My dad,my cousins,my friends....nd I have always wondered why...There have been many instances where i have seen them emotionally shattered but still holding on to their tears...acting strong.....WHY???

When a guy cries, people say - come on be a man, you are no more kid. Stop crying like a baby. But, when a girl cries, people become very sympathetic to them.


A man is always told as a child that women despise a man that cries.They think that he is wimpy and weak.Most women(including me) like their men 2 b tough & strong....U cant xpect ur man to cry after all !!!Imagine u get hurt & ur father starts crying with u instead of giving u the support u need!!! U are talking to ur friend abt ur ex & he too breaks down with u rather than making u understand that its no use crying over the past..... how odd!!!! I know all theses situatuins are very funny..... nd beyond our acceptance...


But at the same time , dont these men have the right to cry too??How can they always be strong enuf just to support us??How can they keep smiling so that we stop crying??Why is it shameful 4 a man to cry???Arnt they human beings too??i agree they dont have to be the kinds who cries watching a hindi muvie..(then wats the diffrnce bet a man & a women?)....but i m sure there r times when they 2 need a shoulder to cry on...They need a women who will not laugh at them for being weak....a women who can be their strength too......!!!


Crying is natural, healthy & curative.Its good for the soul.When ur holding back ur tears...there are so many emotions that are being stuffed up inside.You feel suffocated inside..suffering every minute but not able to express it.The easier way out is to let those pearls flow down ur cheeks & vent out all the anger,deppression,frusteration etc once and for all....Women find it easier to do so....But wat abt the men??Why should u keep the hurt & pain inside you??Why do u think that crying is a sign of weakness???



Gals, do u consider UR Man to be girly if he cries???

Guys, do u always need to bottle up ur emotions even with the one u love??Would u be comfortable enough to cry on her shoulders??Or do u 2 prefer the shower??!!!!!!!

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...
then it's not love..
it's - Infatuation . . .


If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because
others think that you shouldn't ...
then it's not love..
it's - Compromise . . .

If you love some one because you think that you cannot live without his touch ....
then it's not love ..
it's - lust . . .


If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..
then it's not love ..
it's - charity . . .



If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...
then it's not love..
it's - friendship . . .



BUT,



If you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable
and you cry for him ..
that's - LOVE . . .









If you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets..
that's - LOVE . . .






If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to..
that's - LOVE . . .

FRIENDS...

When There's someone besides U, Lending u a Helping Hand.. Its Usually
TRUEST OF FRIENDS

When there's someone U turn to for the Sunshine & Laughter..Its usually The
WARMEST OF FRIENDS

When There's Someone offering U words tat say ''I UNDERSTAND''..Its Usually
BEST OF FRIENDS

And when someone takes time to share a Warm SMILE..Its Usually..
DEAREST OF FRIENDS


Friends are Cherished people whom we carry in our hearts wherever we go in life.We may spend a lot of time together getting to know each other & sharing each others lives, then have to move onto other places..But no matter where we go,We always remember the wonderful people who touched our lives...who loved us 4 wat we are..who stayed by us in difficult times...& with whom we feel safe enuf to reveal our true selves!!

My Dear Friends,
No matter where we go in life..
Or how far apart we are..
YOU will always be close to me,
& I will always be UR FRIEND...